Thursday, July 05, 2007

This is an entry I have avoided typing all week, but I really need to get it off of my chest. Starting last week and ending this past Monday, my ex had really been trying to get in contact with me so she could "talk". If you remember, she had tried this approach back in January, and I gave in, and another attempt at a relationship ensued. This time, I had no interest in giving her or us another chance, and I told her as much. She was VERY persistent, and even now I don't truly believe she will leave me alone, but for now she said she would. My friends and family have wanted me to leave this woman alone for 3-4 years now, and I would always come up with some sort of an excuse. I'd say that I owed her because I had cheated, or I would say that THIS time would be the time we finally got things together, and my friends and family would be patient with me. But I strongly suspect that behind my back, they were thinking this fool is just plain stupid, and maybe to some degree they were right...but I don't think so. I never told my friends and family EVERYTHING, so I guess they were never truly able to get a complete picture. They just knew that she was able to bring a bad side out of me, that they had never seen before, and they thought it would be best to get rid of her. My point here is that it took awhile, but I am finally listening to their advice. But even now, I can hear folks saying, he's not really leaving her alone, and they will be back together..which is not true at all, but I've cried wolf one too many times to be taken seriously. What's my point? I have none, I am just getting this thought off of my chest on my second consecutive day off.

6 comments:

hadassah444 said...

alright now you blogged it and ainet no coming back after that!!

Is Rashad really crazy? we shall see, lol

Jamal said...

Leave it alone man......Leave it alone

A Well Destined Child said...

I know you don't know who the heck I am....got here by way of DCAdventures...but I had to leave a comment after reading this post. I know exactly how you feel. I've been in your same situation, and have had to deal with folks not believing when I said that I was through with him. It's only a matter of time before she come back again, so be strong and keep to your word (as long as that's truly what you want).

Bashful said...

Been there done that. When you reach your point and you have had enough, you will leave her alone and you will be happy you did.

maxwellsmusze said...

ummm hmmmm i know that's right...

Janelle said...

I know somebody to hook her up with. He's just as persistent and ridiculous as she. Perfect pair. Want his #??? LOL